女性的葱油，以及葱油的女性亲友，有没有发现什么男性葱油没发现的社会变化
这是《美国众神》的作者尼尔·盖曼转发的一篇文章：在二战前，很多犹太家庭成功逃离德国全是靠太太发现社会风气出了问题。
https://neil-gaiman.tumblr.com/post/189727420091/historicity-was-already-taken
The reality is that most of our understandings of history revolve around what men were doing. But by paying attention to the other half of humanity our understanding of history can be radically altered.
For example, with Jewish emigration out of the Third Reich it is just kind of assumed that it was a decision made by a man, and the rest of his family just followed him out of danger. But that is completely inaccurate. Women, constrained to the private social sphere to varying extents, were the first to notice the rise in social anti-Semitism in the beginning of Hitler’s rule. They were the ones to notice their friends pulling away and their social networks coming apart. They were the first to sense the danger.
German Jewish men tended to work in industries which were historically heavily Jewish, thus keeping them from directly experiencing this “social death.” These women would warn their husbands and urge them to begin the emigration process, and often their husbands would overlook or undervalue their concerns (“you’re just being hysterical” etc). After the Nuremberg Laws were passed, and after even more so after Kristallnacht, it fell to women to free their husbands from concentration camps, to run businesses, and to wade through the emigration process.
The fact that the Nazis initially focused their efforts on Jewish men meant that it fell to Jewish women to take charge of the family and plan their escape. In one case, a woman had her husband freed from a camp (to do so, she had to present emigration papers which were not easy to procure), and casually informed him that she had arranged their transport to Shanghai. Her husband—so traumatized from the camp—made no argument. Just by looking at what women were doing, our understanding of this era of Jewish history is changed.
https://neil-gaiman.tumblr.com/post/189727420091/historicity-was-already-taken
The reality is that most of our understandings of history revolve around what men were doing. But by paying attention to the other half of humanity our understanding of history can be radically altered.
For example, with Jewish emigration out of the Third Reich it is just kind of assumed that it was a decision made by a man, and the rest of his family just followed him out of danger. But that is completely inaccurate. Women, constrained to the private social sphere to varying extents, were the first to notice the rise in social anti-Semitism in the beginning of Hitler’s rule. They were the ones to notice their friends pulling away and their social networks coming apart. They were the first to sense the danger.
German Jewish men tended to work in industries which were historically heavily Jewish, thus keeping them from directly experiencing this “social death.” These women would warn their husbands and urge them to begin the emigration process, and often their husbands would overlook or undervalue their concerns (“you’re just being hysterical” etc). After the Nuremberg Laws were passed, and after even more so after Kristallnacht, it fell to women to free their husbands from concentration camps, to run businesses, and to wade through the emigration process.
The fact that the Nazis initially focused their efforts on Jewish men meant that it fell to Jewish women to take charge of the family and plan their escape. In one case, a woman had her husband freed from a camp (to do so, she had to present emigration papers which were not easy to procure), and casually informed him that she had arranged their transport to Shanghai. Her husband—so traumatized from the camp—made no argument. Just by looking at what women were doing, our understanding of this era of Jewish history is changed.
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我们在寻思，没跑的那部分犹太人，是不是因为没有老婆¿@@
不，我是讽刺写这篇文章的作者，不带脑子的
文章说的是一部分家庭，不是多么宽泛的结论。家庭主妇对于社会性死亡的感受不是很敏锐吗？没老婆的人没跑掉也很正常，当时德国和美国都有5-o'clock antisemitism，意思就是很多人上班的时候规规矩矩，下班之后随意排挤犹太同事。
婆婆媽媽八卦最多，哪裡不對勁誰被排擠，甚至是買菜時被排擠也不是不可能
我只能说这篇文章+标题都非常不实际（所以值得讽刺）
在迫害和社会危机来临的时候，男性和女性感受到的问题不同，为什么不实际？
同一个作者的其他文章：
https://medium.com/@erhyman/girls-with-guns-woman-commanders-and-unheeded-warnings-women-and-the-holocaust-922a65d615b1
阿拉伯人是无罪的，他们没有迫害过犹太人。犹太人没有抢夺阿拉伯人土地的权利，他们应该在欧罗巴划出一块土地建国。现代以色列是个该死的锡安纳粹国家。
婆婆媽媽八卦最多，哪裡不對勁誰被排擠，甚至是買菜時被排擠也不是不可能
有固定工作的男人感受到种族歧视一般得等到下班后(five o-clock antisemtism)，家庭主妇的社交活动时间更长，卖菜的态度变了肯定能看出来
>> 窮人吧。。。。要知道美國加加拿大二戰爆發前就對猶太人關門了，它們也相當歧視猶太人
可以去巴西之类的。跑路的还这么挑剔不是该死么。
很多立陶宛的犹太人领了日本领事的签证去了哈尔滨上海神户等地，活过了盟军轰炸的也熬到了45年。
>> 可以去巴西之类的。跑路的还这么挑剔不是该死么。很多立陶宛的犹太人领了日本领事的签证去了哈尔滨上...
可我覺得這位回復可能只是想要說「有的國家如美加……」而已，説不定他只是最清楚北美的情況
而且各地都在關門是當時的趨勢沒錯。我只清楚英國的情況，當時也是再三審核，就連小孩的行李都有嚴格限制，大人要取得簽證難於登天，光是排隊就要很久還需要各種擔保
理論上的確可能存在有的人對危機特別敏感的可能性
但我覺得這裏性別差異可能還不如某條基因的差異
再説了，女性葱油怎麽知道男性葱油發現了什麽嘛
就連我是男的女的，在品蔥也是靠自我申告的嘛
武肺封城之前，我和我当时的男友正在同居，他的几个同事撺掇着要去香港和东南亚嫖妓。我前男友表示正好要跟我一起去旅游，于是问我想不想去东南亚。其实我当时就感觉情况不对，就问他想不想回国，他说他还不想回国，但是这个冬天他想带我回国见他父母。我如实地告诉了他当下局势和我的感受，他选择相信我，然后我们就决定待在家里静观其变，当天就去采购了很多必需品，还买了两把锤子和一些工具用来防身，果然没过几天就封城了。
话说封城当天我们去超市买水果，被大批中国人以为是来跟他们抢必需品的，那些中国人欺负他是白人不会说汉语，在结账台排队的时候故意对他又推又吼，我当时十分愤怒，上去就差点跟那些中国人干起架来。到后来只允许每两天一个家庭成员出门采购物品的时候，我担心他的安危，让他在家里做饭休息，往兜里揣两把匕首一瓶酒精就出门了。
话说封城当天我们去超市买水果，被大批中国人以为是来跟他们抢必需品的，那些中国人欺负他是白人不会说汉语，在结账台排队的时候故意对他又推又吼，我当时十分愤怒，上去就差点跟那些中国人干起架来。到后来只允许每两天一个家庭成员出门采购物品的时候，我担心他的安危，让他在家里做饭休息，往兜里揣两把匕首一瓶酒精就出门了。